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		<title>By: Evan Schuman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Evan Schuman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 20:50:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>True, but it also simply be that the parents want to advocate for their children, the same way they&#039;ve advocated for better grades since the earliest school days. The &quot;throw &#039;em in and let them learn to fend for themselves&quot; school of parenting seems to be in short supply these days. As a parent myself, not sure when--and how far--to go with this approach, but if you&#039;re even THINKING about still being there with them post-college at a job interview, you&#039;re way past the line.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>True, but it also simply be that the parents want to advocate for their children, the same way they&#8217;ve advocated for better grades since the earliest school days. The &#8220;throw &#8216;em in and let them learn to fend for themselves&#8221; school of parenting seems to be in short supply these days. As a parent myself, not sure when&#8211;and how far&#8211;to go with this approach, but if you&#8217;re even THINKING about still being there with them post-college at a job interview, you&#8217;re way past the line.</p>
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		<title>By: Lee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Feb 2010 19:55:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Given that IT people are stereotypically less socially aware, perhaps this trend makes sense.  The parent (seems to usually be the mother?)  knows  that their technically gifted son/daughter has some people issues and wants to help compensate?  While the trend might make some sense, I certainly agree with others that this is not a good sign.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Given that IT people are stereotypically less socially aware, perhaps this trend makes sense.  The parent (seems to usually be the mother?)  knows  that their technically gifted son/daughter has some people issues and wants to help compensate?  While the trend might make some sense, I certainly agree with others that this is not a good sign.</p>
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		<title>By: Scott</title>
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		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Feb 2010 20:05:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Please someone tell me this will appear on an episode of Punked!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please someone tell me this will appear on an episode of Punked!</p>
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		<title>By: Chris</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chris</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Jan 2010 22:49:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Appalling.

Agreed with others. I think people like this need to be quite LITERALLY laughed out of the office.

 Look them straight in the eyes, and tell them &quot;I dont care if you are the president of MENSA and Fulbright Scholar with two PhD&#039;s from MIT, entry level kids with their parents in tow, do not, can not, and will not, EVER be qualified to lead an engineering team without the work experience to empirically demonstrate ability and competence. That you DON&#039;T know that is perfectly evidential of the fact that you are far below are hiring standards. Sorry, we&#039;re looking for a professional; which you are not.&quot;

  Maybe that will sink in.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Appalling.</p>
<p>Agreed with others. I think people like this need to be quite LITERALLY laughed out of the office.</p>
<p> Look them straight in the eyes, and tell them &#8220;I dont care if you are the president of MENSA and Fulbright Scholar with two PhD&#8217;s from MIT, entry level kids with their parents in tow, do not, can not, and will not, EVER be qualified to lead an engineering team without the work experience to empirically demonstrate ability and competence. That you DON&#8217;T know that is perfectly evidential of the fact that you are far below are hiring standards. Sorry, we&#8217;re looking for a professional; which you are not.&#8221;</p>
<p>  Maybe that will sink in.</p>
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		<title>By: Cranston W. Snord</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cranston W. Snord</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 17:52:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To paraphrase Gene Wilder in &quot;Blazing Saddles&quot;, 

&#039;You have to understand, these are simple folk, new college graduates, proud and contemptuous, the common clay of the modern economy. You know, MORONS!&#039;

I like Bob LeMay&#039;s answer, but it needs to go a step furhter. When asked if they can bring their parents, just tell them : &quot;If you need to bring Mommy and Daddy with you to an internview, you&#039;re too needy to work here. I don&#039;t have time to manage you AND parent you. Perhaps after you&#039;re potty trained, or once you&#039;ve made the big move to solid food....&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To paraphrase Gene Wilder in &#8220;Blazing Saddles&#8221;, </p>
<p>&#8216;You have to understand, these are simple folk, new college graduates, proud and contemptuous, the common clay of the modern economy. You know, MORONS!&#8217;</p>
<p>I like Bob LeMay&#8217;s answer, but it needs to go a step furhter. When asked if they can bring their parents, just tell them : &#8220;If you need to bring Mommy and Daddy with you to an internview, you&#8217;re too needy to work here. I don&#8217;t have time to manage you AND parent you. Perhaps after you&#8217;re potty trained, or once you&#8217;ve made the big move to solid food&#8230;.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Bob LeMay</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bob LeMay</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Jan 2010 17:25:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mr. Michaud&#039;s response to the candidate who brought her parents to the interview, after she indicated that she was looking for a leadership position, should have been, &quot;No one qualified for a leadership position in this--or any other--company would bring their parents to an interview.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mr. Michaud&#8217;s response to the candidate who brought her parents to the interview, after she indicated that she was looking for a leadership position, should have been, &#8220;No one qualified for a leadership position in this&#8211;or any other&#8211;company would bring their parents to an interview.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Evan Schuman</title>
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		<dc:creator>Evan Schuman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 18:21:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Editor&#039;s Note: I can report, with sadness, that after Todd mentioned this trend, I have spoken with quite a few IT execs. Alas, it is indeed a trend. I told my 12-year-old daughter yesterday that if I &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;ever&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; ask to go on a job interview with her, she has my full backing to place me in the cheapest nursing home she can find.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Editor&#8217;s Note: I can report, with sadness, that after Todd mentioned this trend, I have spoken with quite a few IT execs. Alas, it is indeed a trend. I told my 12-year-old daughter yesterday that if I <strong><em>ever</em></strong> ask to go on a job interview with her, she has my full backing to place me in the cheapest nursing home she can find.</p>
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		<title>By: wayne steiger</title>
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		<dc:creator>wayne steiger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 18:16:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Todd,

All I can say is God help us all if this is the case, I truely hope it is not a trend because if it is it holds the seeds of some really bads news for us all.  My company as most depends heavily on competent, talented, and mature IT professionals and we look for new talent coming into the field, just because one has a degree does not make you qualified to lead.

What shocks me is the attitude of the candidate and more so that any parent would expect a company to comply to such a request (not sure what disturbs me more the fact that a condidate would expect such a thing or that a parent would actually think this is normal), if I had not read it from Storefront I would have thought it was a made up story, what is this next generation thinking. What arrogance, they need to learn that one has to learn to walk before one can run, and to expect a leadership position before you know how to follow orders/ rules, give us all a break here, guess that is now old school.

As the president of my company I will be making sure that any new applicant is not allowed to bring parents to any interview (this has not happen or come up, YET)

Thank you for the heads up this is very disturbing.

Wayne Steiger</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Todd,</p>
<p>All I can say is God help us all if this is the case, I truely hope it is not a trend because if it is it holds the seeds of some really bads news for us all.  My company as most depends heavily on competent, talented, and mature IT professionals and we look for new talent coming into the field, just because one has a degree does not make you qualified to lead.</p>
<p>What shocks me is the attitude of the candidate and more so that any parent would expect a company to comply to such a request (not sure what disturbs me more the fact that a condidate would expect such a thing or that a parent would actually think this is normal), if I had not read it from Storefront I would have thought it was a made up story, what is this next generation thinking. What arrogance, they need to learn that one has to learn to walk before one can run, and to expect a leadership position before you know how to follow orders/ rules, give us all a break here, guess that is now old school.</p>
<p>As the president of my company I will be making sure that any new applicant is not allowed to bring parents to any interview (this has not happen or come up, YET)</p>
<p>Thank you for the heads up this is very disturbing.</p>
<p>Wayne Steiger</p>
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		<title>By: Marty</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marty</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 17:43:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While this is interesting to a Baby Boomer on the verge of retirement from IT, it is not surprising.  

My son (non-IT) was considering a promissing post-college stint in minor baseball a few years ago.  He informed me, &quot;If I don&#039;t make the Bigs and have to take a regular job, it better not be entry-level.&quot;  My response (after the laughter) &quot;Are you kidding me?&quot;  But he was very serious.

While I don&#039;t think I was an overly protective parent and my kids can visit me but NOT LIVE WITH ME, the attitude of the Millenials is very much all about entitlement.  

I coached my kids that they cannot expect to work for 1 company for 30 years like I did.  However, on the flip side, I believe companies are going to have a hard time hanging onto those folks who they want to keep for 30 years.

We BB&#039;s are the last of a breed.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While this is interesting to a Baby Boomer on the verge of retirement from IT, it is not surprising.  </p>
<p>My son (non-IT) was considering a promissing post-college stint in minor baseball a few years ago.  He informed me, &#8220;If I don&#8217;t make the Bigs and have to take a regular job, it better not be entry-level.&#8221;  My response (after the laughter) &#8220;Are you kidding me?&#8221;  But he was very serious.</p>
<p>While I don&#8217;t think I was an overly protective parent and my kids can visit me but NOT LIVE WITH ME, the attitude of the Millenials is very much all about entitlement.  </p>
<p>I coached my kids that they cannot expect to work for 1 company for 30 years like I did.  However, on the flip side, I believe companies are going to have a hard time hanging onto those folks who they want to keep for 30 years.</p>
<p>We BB&#8217;s are the last of a breed.</p>
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